Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Attraction

WHY people attract to each other?

WHY do you like certain people only and not everyone?


Well, scientist (psychologist) says that there is few factors underlying who likes who.


1. Proximity

>Notice, your friend (most of them) live near you (closeness in term of physical spaces).

>Such closeness create opportunity for you to meet and know each other.


2. Similarity

>We are not magnet (same will repulse, differ will attract) because people with similarity often than not, attract to each other.

>Your friend is one in same believe/religion/races most of the time.

>Differences on the otherhand, create conflict, prejudice etc.


3. Physical Attraction

>Men like woman with slim body, and woman like men with muscular abs.

>This mostly true across culture.

0==]::::::::::> Knowing this can be weapon

to attract people.

Let say you got certain someone you want to attract...

You can research that someone's hobby, home, fashion etc.

If you know where he/she live, maybe you can move close by (proximity)

Or if you know his/her hobby, you can also try out that hobby (similarity)

Or if you know type of 'appearances' that he/she attract to, maybe you can become one.

All this are just example, you always find other application beside one that is stated above...

Use your imagination... Hehehe





1 comment:

  1. yup..

    sometimes it's very true...

    the reason why we attract to some people is because of similarities that we share with him or her...

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